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		<title>This Should Have Been Stopped</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 11:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Attorney David Engler I have been an elected official for over 22 years. The past 11 have been with the Board of the Mahoning County Career and Technical Center. I was a Board Member who received a deranged business &#8230; <a href="http://familyfaultlines.com/2012/02/14/this-should-have-been-stopped/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=familyfaultlines.com&amp;blog=25248442&amp;post=435&amp;subd=familyfaultlines&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Attorney David Engler</strong></p>
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I have been an elected official for over 22 years.  The past 11 have been with the Board of the Mahoning County Career and Technical Center. I was a Board Member who received a deranged business card from the killer who stalked Stacey Sutera. Please make no mistake about it: Stacey Sutera was a beautiful daughter, mother, granddaughter, teacher, friend and colleague. This was not some boyfriend-girlfriend relationship gone bad.  This was a freak ego-maniac; obsessed old man who was bent on revenge once he learned the object of his obsession had rejected him.  There was no relationship.  It existed in his twisted mind.  And then this criminal monster stole this tremendous young successful life from her family, friends and students.</p>
<p>I cannot remember being so sad and angry at the same time over something that has unfolded in the public.  It did not have to happen. It could have been stopped.  The government paid to protect us should have insisted that if the killer was not going to be in jail for 5 years, he should have worn a GPS tracking device that kept him out of Mahoning County.  If he took the bracelet off or came within the County limits the victim and police would be immediately notified.  She lived a nightmare of wondering where he was. And I do not know if she approved the plea agreement that got him no monitoring or jail or if that was recommended to her.  Often a battered or stalked woman will not want to push too far.  They fear retaliation. Stacey did everything right.</p>
<p>She called the police and Canfield PD responded to protect her.  She received a restraining order. She filed a civil suit.  She installed cameras. She asked for help. So why wasn&#8217;t he made to pay for a GPS tracking device? It was available. </p>
<p>The federal government, state government and every person that is elected to represent people should recognize that the answer to this tragedy is to hold those that should have protected Stacey accountable and to make sure it never happens again.  Never again should a madman stalk an innocent young woman, put her life in tatters and not be required to wear a bracelet that would protect his victim.  Anywhere. Anytime.</p>
<p>Some will argue where to draw the line.  I trust the Judges will know that line if they are presented with the facts and threat.  But please be sure that the devil that took Stacey was an obvious threat.  She knew that and it meant that others knew the danger as well.  May her memory be a call to action.   </p>
<p><strong>Attorney David Engler<br />
Phone: 330-729-9777<br />
http://www.DavidEngler.com <a href="http://www.DavidEngler.com">Attorney Engler&#8217;s website</a><br />
Areas of Practice: Family Law, Elder Law, Domestic Relations, Bankruptcy, Criminal </strong></p>
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		<title>Rest In Peace Mom</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 05:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Austintown, Ohio and Orono, Maine- Wanda Jane Engler, 84, died February 2nd, 2012, at the Maine Veterans’ Home after battling Parkinson Disease. She was born February 27th, 1927 in Bellwood, PA, daughter of Samuel and Emma (Hostler) Hildebrand. She graduated &#8230; <a href="http://familyfaultlines.com/2012/02/04/rest-in-peace-mom/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=familyfaultlines.com&amp;blog=25248442&amp;post=429&amp;subd=familyfaultlines&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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 Austintown, Ohio and Orono, Maine- Wanda Jane Engler, 84, died February 2nd, 2012, at the Maine Veterans’ Home after battling Parkinson Disease. She was born February 27th, 1927 in Bellwood, PA, daughter of Samuel and Emma (Hostler) Hildebrand. She graduated in 1948 from the Clearfield School of Nursing at Indiana State College with a degree in Nursing. Wanda was proud of her service as Nurse Cadet during WWII and working with veterans at the Cleveland VA Hospital, where she participated in some of the very first open heart surgery as Operating Room Nurse.  On January 20th,1951,she married William L. Engler, the father of her four children. She worked as a homemaker and nurse throughout Ohio, finally settling in Youngstown, OH, where she worked as an office nurse for Dr. Tochtenhagen in Girard and as a nanny for her grandchildren until her retirement. She loved working around her home and reading. She loved her grandchildren immensely and was known to everyone as “Nana”. She enjoyed her neighbors and lived next door to the best neighbors ever, Carl and Mary Gump. She moved to Maine in August 2009, to be closer to her youngest daughter and granddaughter who cared for her during her hardest months. </p>
<p>Wanda was predeceased by her loving husband of 39 years, Bill; sisters, Lorraine Fair and Grace Large and brother Eugene “Red” Hildebrand. She is survived by her four children: Patricia Engler of Conifer, CO; William Engler (Wendy)of Minneapolis, MN; David Engler of Canfield, OH; and Amy Engler Booth,(John) of Orono; grandchildren: Mallory Engler of Houston, TX; Elizabeth Engler, of Chicago, IL; Taylor Engler, of San Diego, CA; Emma Engler, of Canton, OH; William Engler, of Pittsburgh, PA; and Molly Booth, of Orono.  She is also survived by: sister Thelma McWilliams of  Bluffton SC; and brother Ralph Hildebrand of Altoona, PA; and nieces and nephews.</p>
<p>The family would like to express sincere thanks to the staff at Maine Veterans’ Home. Interment and a memorial service will be held in Austintown, OH in the late spring. In lieu of flowers, those who wish to remember Wanda in a special way may make gifts in her memory to the Clearfield Hospital Nursing Alumni Association&#8217;s Nursing Scholarship, c/o Rita Thomson, 612 Arnold Ave., Clearfield, PA 16830.</p>
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		<title>The (lack of a sincere) Apology</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 12:07:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Attorney David Engler The CSB worker that I agreed not to prosecute gave me the old no apology, apology. It&#8217;s where you tell the offended party that you are sorry if they were so stupid that you took their &#8230; <a href="http://familyfaultlines.com/2012/01/24/the-lack-of-a-sincere-apology/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=familyfaultlines.com&amp;blog=25248442&amp;post=417&amp;subd=familyfaultlines&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Attorney David Engler</strong></p>
<p>The CSB worker that I agreed not to prosecute gave me the old no apology, apology. It&#8217;s where you tell the offended party that you are sorry if they were so stupid that you took their threatening words as a threat. That since you are so stupid, then I am sorry you took my warning to &#8220;stay out of Trumbull &#8221; as something other than a nicety we people use around here. And I am so sorry if you or someone might have been alarmed that I used ugly language that would make my mother&#8217;s hair curl to tell you I would attempt to ruin your business&#8230;but if you should happen to have such thin skin then I&#8217;m sorry. </p>
<p>Try using one of these lines on your wife. Boom to the moon!</p>
<p>(Here is a link to an article that describes the pathology of the faux apology.<br />
<a href="http://lightshouse.org/lights-blog/false-apology-fake-apology-fauxpology" target="_blank">http://lightshouse.org/lights-blog/false-apology-fake-apology-fauxpology </a></a>)</p>
<p>It is this total lack of remorse in their every ill-advised actions that make me pursue this agency, seeking justice for the murdered and abused children. If Trumbull County&#8217;s CSB openly recognized their mistakes, and were making a sincere effort to correct them, one could give them the benefit-of-the-doubt. But in fact, they are not sincerely trying to make good, they are simply scrambling to take any actions which will make the spotlight on their operations go away.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s not allow them to do that, for the good of our region and the good of our children let&#8217;s keep the spotlight where it belongs, on the children Trumbull County CSB has had in their custody who have been abused and murdered. </p>
<p><strong>Attorney David Engler<br />
Phone: 330-729-9777<br />
http://www.DavidEngler.com      <a href="http://www.DavidEngler.com">Attorney Engler&#8217;s website</a><br />
Areas of Practice: Family Law, Elder Law, Domestic Relations, Bankruptcy, Criminal </strong></p>
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		<title>Why Government Fails Children</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 21:25:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Attorney David Engler In one way or the other for 25 years I have been involved as a government elected official. First as a councilman from a tough Youngstown City Ward, then a Commissioner of a large Ohio County &#8230; <a href="http://familyfaultlines.com/2012/01/23/why-government-fails-children/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=familyfaultlines.com&amp;blog=25248442&amp;post=409&amp;subd=familyfaultlines&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Attorney David Engler</strong><br />
<img src="http://familyfaultlines.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/newton.gif?w=584" alt="Newton's Law" /></p>
<p>In one way or the other for 25 years I have been involved as a government elected official. First as a councilman from a tough Youngstown City Ward, then a Commissioner of a large Ohio County and now as a Board Member of a County School System.  So I admit to being part of the problem.   </p>
<p>In each of these roles, part, or the entire mandate has been to provide for and to protect children. It&#8217;s a given that we as a State and Country believe that children should be offered a Free and Appropriate Public Education. Through our County and City governments we also believe that children should be protected from those that would abuse and neglect them like their parents or other predators that lurk in front of and behind the shadows.</p>
<p>Government lacks accountability from results from layering of bureaucracy year after year, tax dollar after tax dollar.  Each year their mass gets greater. </p>
<p>Laws of physics apply. A body at rest stays at rest.  To overcome inertia there must be a force that is equal to mass of the object times acceleration. Newton had it right.  This is my theory: that F= MA applies equally to government agencies. The question is how to generate force extrinsic to the agency. </p>
<p>In Trumbull County, Ohio the Children Service Placement Agency funded with federal, state and local dollars has remained a body at rest despite the murders of four children over 10 years by foster parents approved by CSB or by others where CSB was involved in the placement.  Just recently, it was discovered that a nine-month old infant was molested at the agency during a &#8220;supervised&#8221; visitation.  The agency remarkably believes it shares no liability for allowing the atrocity to occur and be filmed at its own building.  It says this even though it knew that the infant&#8217;s father had raped a three year old relative about 7 years earlier and was sent to DYS (Juvenile Jail) in Columbus.  </p>
<p>In Mahoning County the Board I sit on operates a school for children with emotional disabilities.  And there is no doubt that the overall mission is to serve this very difficult population on funding from the State of about $11,000 per year per student.  It is hard to find a teacher with a certification in special education and the aides that work with the children have even less or no training in dealing with these kids. So each year there is a tremendous turnover in personnel because to work a day at this alternative school can feel like a lifetime. There is no football team to cheer, no children getting academic achievement awards and no school plays or recitals where the children are applauded.  The gains are so much smaller.  It might be a victory to get a child to come to school fed, bathed and properly dressed. It is a landmark to matriculate the student back to a home school. But the turnover in personnel means there is a lack of consistency in teaching methods and often a sense that the school is doing nothing more than holding the child as time passes.  Nothing will change until an accident happens and the lack of progress is brought to light.  </p>
<p>Force in a governmental setting is only applied by those elected or appointed to be the representatives of the public that deemed a public education or the protection of children goals worthy of the forced conscription of our personal wealth, i.e.,income tax, sales tax or real property tax.  The other form of force beyond our elected representatives occurs through a ballot initiative or the rejection or adoption of a tax levy placed on the ballot It is at this point where the disconnect begins. Once the money leaves our paycheck or wallet; it makes it way to the institutions charged with creating the desired outcomes of a FAPE and protected children.  These government agencies are often run by an appointed board that has little connection to the elected board that years ago had appointed them.  There is no real connection or concern about their jobs since they are not being paid and the public rarely even knows they sit on a board that dispenses 15.5 million dollars a year in purchased services.  At this point in time several board members are reading this and shouting at the computer screen &#8220;How in the world can Engler say I don&#8217;t care about kids.  That is why I volunteer my time to sit on this Board.&#8221; Let me be clear I believe that nearly all Board members on schools boards and CSB boards do care about children getting a good education and being safe from perverts, but they lack the incentive of &#8220;Force&#8221; to make any significant change even in the face of overwhelming evidence that their system is broken.  The Board member normally pales in the face of a multi-million dollar entity that has long ago learned that board members come and go and the occasional critic can be outlasted.  That is the inertia of Mass.  It is what happens when you spend 15.5 million dollars a year on salaries and services.  The prosecutor in the town turns his head because he gets over $200,000 a year in contracted services.  Everyone knows someone who has a job at the agency.  Maybe a recommendation from a commissioner or Board member was helpful in securing that job.  Health professionals make money. Foster parents make money.  Pretty soon every potential critic has a gag in his/her mouth because there is money involved.  </p>
<p>I remember being the youngest County Commissioner in Ohio at the time, being full of an overabundance of both piss and vinegar.  An older colleague kindly told me: slow down, this 300 million dollar county is like moving the Titanic. YOU CANNOT DO IT. So you learn to accept small victories, but they are literally changing the deck chairs.  I built a couple of jails, instituted 911, curb-side recycling and managed to finagle money from the federal government to create some jobs. But 12 years later I&#8217;m not sure much has changed. </p>
<p>The amount of force necessary to move a government from a place of inertia to forward movement is the threat that it&#8217;s budget will be consumed from outside attacks like lawsuits or that it can be replaced by a model that would be inherently more accountable since it would be judged purely on how many children you helped to educate or whether you were able to keep children from being murdered or reduce the number of children abused.  If you fail to show progress than you lose your government contract after three years.  The economic motivation would be so great to do the job that the contracted not for profit agency or not for profit school would every day make sure it was meeting its goals.  Contrast the proposed model to the model at work now. Four children get murdered and another gets molested in your agency and the only change is more tax funds and higher salaries.  Teachers are jumping ship from the school in increasing numbers every year and nothing happens.  There must be a connection made between doing your job and getting paid.  In government it is rare for someone to lose a job because a child under its watch was murdered or students simply survive a school system because they are so difficult to begin with. My belief is that children do not fail; we fail our children.</p>
<p>Governments have it wrong when they think they can run a children service agency or school for special needs students. We care but not enough to do anything until some outside entity finds that special place where F = MA. It is usually the death of a child, but not always as Trumbull County has shown.  It might be the loss of a levy or the loss from a lawsuit or the mandate from a Governor. But it does not occur from within.  The agencies are designed to disperse blame as efficiently as a bullet proof vest will deflect the force of a fired shot.  No one in particular is accountable.  </p>
<p>Governments are designed to tax people and provide some basic services like policing the streets and providing firefighting. When the mandate goes beyond these traditional services the best result government can get to protect and educate special need children is to create a contract with a well vetted not for profit who has to answer a basic question every two or three years:  &#8220;what did you do to protect our children or take care of their special needs.  If your answer is nothing then you are not needed. </p>
<p><strong>Attorney David Engler<br />
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http://www.DavidEngler.com      <a href="http://www.DavidEngler.com">Attorney Engler&#8217;s website</a><br />
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		<title>Poor Auntavia. When a child is murdered it should be asked: &#8220;What did we do wrong?&#8221;</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A note to my friends: Thanks for your showing of support. I appreciate it. I have written another article for you and hope you will look at it and give me your feedback. I consider the writing part of my job fighting for people. </p>
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<p>Nick Kerosky, the Director of Trumbull County Children Services expressed succinctly the attitude of most bureaucratic children service directors, “There’s no support that it [wrongdoing] ever happened. I don’t believe it ever happened,” Kerosky said. </p>
<p>“While the death of a child is always a tragedy, it is unfair and unethical to assume that a death means that there must be wrongdoing on the part of CSB.&#8221; Director Kerosky said in a press release, in response to allegations that the 2003 death of 3 year old <strong>Auntavia Diggs</strong> was in part due to CSB&#8217;s inaction</p>
<p>Kerosky believes that one, two or three children deaths in Trumbull County, Ohio during a 6 year period should not give rise to criticism of CSB.  I suppose he is talking about me when he suggests it is unethical to assume a death means that there must be wrongdoing on the part of CSB. </p>
<p>I will not comment about my pending action on behalf of a dad who lost his only child, a daughter, (without being represented,) to a foster-parent who quickly murdered the little 22 month old, strangling the life out of her. CSB said she would be a good foster parent. She left the impression of her ring on the baby&#8217;s neck. </p>
<p>No I want to talk about poor Auntavia who was tortured, burned and then murdered by people CSB said were appropriate to watch children. </p>
<p>Relatives say Ethel Wilbert-Bethea who is serving 21 years for murder reached out to CSB three times to give the baby back. CSB’s records, which we learned from the State Audit are sometimes ‘adjusted after the fact’, reflect a Hogan’s Heroes Sargent Schultz mentality of &#8220;I&#8217;ve seen nothing. I&#8217;ve heard nothing.&#8221;</p>
<p>5 months earlier in 2003, little 4 year old Logan Guiton was murdered while in foster care by Michael Ledger.  His head was cracked against a wall in the house where he was placed by CSB.  Ledger is serving 15 years to life.  The CSB director at that time said there were no records to suggest CSB had any culpability.  </p>
<p>This is the point: <strong>when any child in their care dies, it should be assumed that children services erred. </strong> An agency should not be afraid to look at itself in every instance and find out how it could have prevented the tragedy.</p>
<p>Look at The CSB mission statement. &#8230;it is to protect children in Trumbull County from being abused in their schools, homes and to especially protect those children from the most likely abuser, a family member.  The standard of care becomes even greater when the child falls into the care and custody of CSB. It would seem that a child being molested in CSB&#8217;s own building would be a clear case of a colossal CSB screwup when it was known or should have been known that the father was a voracious sexual predator who had his siblings removed from his home when he was released by department of Youth Services.  While in Mahoning County lock up as a juvenile, he was a sexual predator. The grandmother complained to CSB about him being a sex offender. CSB does not keep notes, when it does not fit its story. </p>
<p>Trumbull County Children Services Bureau fails when a child gets sexually abused.  Anywhere. Anytime.  </p>
<p>It will happen again. And at every turn CSB should be asking itself what did we do wrong. This doesn&#8217;t mean CSB will be sued.  It is a fundamental shift in philosophy from what Kerosky said about the murder of poor Auntavia, to a more principled belief, that when it comes to the safety of our children there is no margin of error.  There can be no hesitancy to act.  Each tragedy should be a moment to learn from mistakes and work harder to prevent the loss of a child in the future.  CSB is protected from just about every form of liability except the one that springs forth from the expenditure of 15.5 million dollars of taxpayer money each year to affirmatively keep kids from dying. CSB is in a statistical tsunami of children&#8217;s deaths and abuse and its answer is to say bad things happen. The rate of children&#8217;s death by caregivers in Trumbull County is either a statistical anomaly or an indication that something is broken and needs fixed.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Poor Joshua! Victim of repeated attacks by an irresponsible, bullying, cowardly, and intemperate father, and abandoned by respondents who placed him in a dangerous predicament and who knew or learned what was going on, and yet did essentially nothing except &#8230; dutifully recorded these incidents in [their] files.&#8221; It is a sad commentary upon American life, and constitutional principles &#8211; so full of late of patriotic fervor and proud proclamations about &#8220;liberty and justice for all&#8221; &#8211; that this child, Joshua DeShaney, now is assigned to live out the remainder of his life profoundly retarded. Joshua and his mother, as petitioners here, deserve &#8211; but now are denied by this Court &#8211; the opportunity to have the facts of their case considered in the light of the constitutional protection that 42 U.S.C. 1983 is meant to provide.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>This was the famous dissent given by Associate Justice Harry Blackmun in the DeShaney v. Winnebago County Children Services case that stands as law today.  The mother of Joshua had sued the county CSB for allowing the child to go back to the care of his father despite a clear indication that the father was a child abusing bully. A child was abused by his father and CSB failed to act. The majority in the case stated that Joshua could not recover from Winnebago County because the federal laws are meant to protect violations of a state actor, not a private actor like Joshua&#8217;s father or in the case in Trumbull County, Wilbert-Bethea who murdered Auntavia.  The Supreme Court did say that there might be state court remedies, but those are unlikely since governmental immunities protect CSB from all but the most egregious acts of indifference.  <strong>They are not protected however when the offender who kills or molests is an agent of the State like a foster parent or the harm takes place on its own property.  </strong></p>
<p>It is unlikely that CSB will change from within and become the type of agency that understands that every death of a child is one too many and at each death or each incident of abuse CSB should ask itself what it did wrong.  </p>
<p>Our victimized children do not fail us, we fail them.<br />
CSB is given $15.5 million dollars a year to perform a job the rest of us believe is proper and right.  </p>
<p>And this is not a condition that is found just in Trumbull County, Ohio. It has happened with three murders of children in Hamilton County this past year.</p>
<p>The State of Florida, after the sickening murder of a young boy and girl by their adoptive father, revamped its entire child protective service organization to allow not-for- profits and faith based groups a chance to be held more accountable than  government agencies grown indifferent with time and attitudes of &#8220;it wasn&#8217;t me.&#8221;</p>
<p>Yes there should be no shame in each time a child is murdered, abused, or abandoned for the wealthy tax payer funded agency to say to itself, &#8220;what did we do wrong.&#8221;   Not to take this attitude will only lead to more unspeakable horrors. </p>
<p><strong>Attorney David Engler<br />
Phone: 330-729-9777<br />
http://www.DavidEngler.com <a href="http://www.DavidEngler.com">Attorney Engler&#8217;s website</a><br />
Areas of Practice: Family Law, Elder Law, Domestic Relations, Bankruptcy, Criminal </strong></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Attorney David Engler Wanda and Stella Wanda is my Mom. Parkinson&#8217;s disease has slowly but assuredly taken her strength and her voice. The stroke on the Royal Wedding Day this spring did not help matters either. But as the &#8230; <a href="http://familyfaultlines.com/2011/12/28/its-never-too-late-to-make-a-new-friend/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=familyfaultlines.com&amp;blog=25248442&amp;post=382&amp;subd=familyfaultlines&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<strong>Wanda and Stella </strong></p>
<p>Wanda is my Mom. Parkinson&#8217;s disease has slowly but assuredly taken her strength and her voice.  The stroke on the Royal Wedding Day this spring did not help matters either.  But as the New Year approaches she is in the Maine Veterans Home.   She does not want to see her 86th year.  She has prayed to her husband and my father, Bill who passed 21 years ago, that she wanted nothing more to do with her worn body. They met 59 years ago. She was a nurse at the VA hospital in Cleveland and he was a disabled vet getting a degree at Kent State.</p>
<p>Stella is 93 and cancer is fighting her will and she knows the battle is nearly over.  The last great battle she saw was working as an Army nurse in England helping to heal GI&#8217;s as they returned from Normandy. Not coincidentally she married a soldier whom she met a few years later and he took her to Maine.  Over time she would have two children and help turn a family owned bar and grill into a large seafood wholesaler specializing in selling Lobsters, of course.  The great irony Stella explained was that she could never taste what her family sold because she was allergic to shell fish which should not be confused with seafood. </p>
<p>About 15 months ago we moved Mom from her home in Ohio to live on the first floor of my sister&#8217;s home in Maine.  She was falling and insisted that she could care for herself; the reality was she could not make the one step from the living room to the kitchen.  </p>
<p>So off to Maine she went. The state motto is &#8220;Life As It Ought To Be&#8221;. My sister is busy with an 8 year old adopted Chinese whirlwind named Molly and a professorship at the U of Maine.  Three 911 calls in 6 months and it was clear that Mom needed nursing home care. So in May of this last year she gets put in a room with Stella. Stella&#8217;s hair is wispy from the many chemo treatments she received to slow down cancer&#8217;s assault.  Long before the cancer her hearing went. She seems to fill in the words if you can talk loud enough.  Mom had one good eye before the stroke and Parkinson&#8217;s and now that one went bad.  Reading and watching the news was a daily companion, now she can just listen to Ann Curry.  </p>
<p>The room looks like any other nursing home.  Cards crowd the bulletin boards and the closet door is a backdrop of art work created by grandchildren. What makes the room a home is each other.  The nurses and aides see the two holding hands trying to make sense of a death that is unscheduled but waiting.  It was Stella who told the staff that she and Wanda have a pact that they would like to hold hands and race into heaven together. The spunky nurse from Portugal attracted to Maine by her country&#8217;s fishing heritage, said &#8220;It was more like a turtle race to Heaven&#8221;, since neither seemed closer to the end despite their bodies having months ago failed.  </p>
<p>So it was on Christmas Day this year that I traveled to surprise my Mom. At first she did not recognize me.  I have heard how hard that is to hear.  But after a few minutes she asked about each of the kids that she raised when they were small and that I feed her a favorite dark chocolate mint from Philadelphia Chocolates. It was my favorite Christmas memory.  And what I took home was this picture I snapped with my iPhone that neither old nurse could have imagined. A new friend was made in what will surely be their last year on this Earth. It is the power of a touch of a hand and someone that cares when you least expect it.</p>
<p><strong>Attorney David Engler<br />
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		<title>VINDY: Atty. Engler probing deaths at Trumbull Children Services</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2011 13:36:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Published: Sun, December 18, 2011 @ 12:10 a.m. ATTORNEY LOOKS INTO DEATHS OF 2 IN 2003 By Ed Runyan runyan@vindy.com WARREN An attorney who has applied pressure to Trumbull County Children Services for months says he’s uncovered evidence that the &#8230; <a href="http://familyfaultlines.com/2011/12/18/vindy-atty-engler-probing-deaths-at-trumbull-children-services/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=familyfaultlines.com&amp;blog=25248442&amp;post=376&amp;subd=familyfaultlines&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Published: Sun, December 18, 2011 @ 12:10 a.m.</p>
<p><strong>ATTORNEY LOOKS INTO DEATHS OF 2 IN 2003</strong><br />
By Ed Runyan</p>
<p>runyan@vindy.com</p>
<p>WARREN</p>
<p>An attorney who has applied pressure to Trumbull County Children Services for months says he’s uncovered evidence that the agency’s problems date back to 2003 — when two children died.</p>
<p>Atty. David Engler encouraged the criminal investigation of employees that is now taking place regarding the alleged videotaped molestation of a 9-month-old child in the agency’s custody in April.</p>
<p>He also sought to have Children Services employees placed on leave during the investigation, and he filed civil suits against the agency for allegedly failing to prevent the death of a child in its custody in 2009 and for allegedly not following the Open Meetings Act.</p>
<p>Now he’s researching the deaths of two children in 2003 that he says indicate the agency has failed for years in its mission to protect children.</p>
<p>Engler points to the deaths of Logan Guiton, 4, at the hands of Michael Ledger of Dickey Avenue in Warren, and Auntavia Atkins, 3, who died at the hands of Ethel Wilbert-Bethea on North Bank Street in Cortland.</p>
<p>Those deaths, combined with the death of Tiffany Banks Cross, 20 months, on April 2, 2009, total three for which Engler believes the agency is in some way responsible.</p>
<p>Engler says that’s a high number of deaths associated with a county children-services agency, which indicates a “dysfunctionality of Trumbull County Children Services.”</p>
<p>The agency denies accusations that an employee in one of the cases ignored warning signs.</p>
<p>The agency’s executive director, Nick Kerosky, was not working in Trumbull County when any of the deaths occurred, but he agrees that three “does seem like a lot.”</p>
<p>“No child should die. One is too many,” Kerosky said. “When a child dies, you have to look and see what could have been done differently.”</p>
<p>He added, “There’s a lot of danger out there for kids, and that’s why we have the agency we do.”</p>
<p><strong>Logan Guiton</strong><br />
Michael Ledger of Dickey Avenue Northwest, now 49, called 911 at 4:20 a.m. Jan. 19, 2003, saying Logan Guiton, his son’s brother, was not breathing. Prosecutors said Ledger injured the boy’s head by hitting it on the drywall of a bedroom wall. The boy died two days later in a Cleveland hospital.</p>
<p>Ledger pleaded guilty to murder and was sentenced to 15 years to life in prison.</p>
<p>Ledger was Logan’s legal guardian. The boy’s mother placed him and his 6-year-old brother in foster care, Warren police said. Ledger was the biological father of the 6-year-old, but he was not Logan’s biological father, according to Vindicator files.</p>
<p>Robert Kubiak, executive director of Children Services in 2003, said the agency had no reports of Logan’s having been abused at Ledger’s home.</p>
<p>“My review is that the agencies working on this case handled it appropriately,” Kubiak said.</p>
<p><strong>Auntavia Atkins</strong><br />
Auntavia Atkins, 3, died Sept. 3, 2003, of a head injury after being taken to the hospital Aug. 29, 2003, from a home on North Bank Street in Cortland where she was living with Ethel Wilbert-Bethea, her husband and other children, according to Vindicator files.</p>
<p>Wilbert-Bethea, now 47, was sentenced to 21 years in prison after being convicted of involuntary manslaughter, felonious assault and four counts of child endangerment.</p>
<p>Auntavia was not in Children Services custody, nor was she part of the agency’s foster-care program, officials said. Auntavia’s mother, Angel Diggs, gave Auntavia to Wilbert-Bethea to watch for her while Diggs worked on getting a full-time job and a place to live, according to Vindicator files.</p>
<p>Cortland police were called to Wilbert-Bethea’s home, where emergency responders found Auntavia in serious condition and took her to a hospital.</p>
<p>The girl also had retinal hemorrhaging, chronic rectal bleeding, malnutrition, missing hair and burn marks on her body, police said.</p>
<p>Diggs told The Vindicator in 2003 that she repeatedly asked a Children Services caseworker to visit Auntavia, but nothing was done. Diggs said she told the agency that she’d been told Wilbert-Bethea was abusing Auntavia.</p>
<p>“I asked my caseworker to visit, but she didn’t. If she would have, she would have saw what was going on,” Diggs said.</p>
<p>Kubiak, the director at the time, said he could not respond to Diggs’ allegations.</p>
<p>Markita Parks of Warren, who along with her mother, Fannie Parks, served as foster parents for 11 years, said Diggs and a Children Services caseworker told her that Wilbert-Bethea had contacted the agency three times to tell it that Wilbert-Bethea wasn’t able to handle Auntavia.</p>
<p>Markia and Fannie Parks told The Vindicator last week that the caseworker asked Fannie Parks to take the child, and Fannie Parks agreed. Parks and her mother already had custody of Auntavia’s brother. Parks eventually adopted the boy, Markita said.</p>
<p>The request for Parks to take Auntavia came about three to four weeks before Auntavia died, Markita Parks said.</p>
<p>“The minute a foster parent says they can’t handle it, an emergency worker needs to get involved,” Markita Parks said. </p>
<p>Parks said the agency’s handling of the Auntavia case made her and her mother “furious” and caused them to get out of foster parenting in 2005.</p>
<p>Kerosky said last week he looked into the allegations made by Fannie and Markita Parks and checked with the caseworker.</p>
<p>“There’s no support that it ever happened. I don’t believe it ever happened,” Kerosky said.</p>
<p>When asked whether Children Services had any knowledge of Auntavia prior to her death, Kerosky said he would not comment.</p>
<p><strong>Tiffany Banks Cross</strong><br />
Tiffany Banks Cross was 20 months old on April 2, 2009, when she died at the hands of her foster mother, Bonnie Pattinson.</p>
<p>Pattinson and her family were living in a duplex on Center Street West in Champion Township when emergency responders were called to the home because the girl was not breathing.</p>
<p>Pattinson, now 33, was convicted of involuntary manslaughter and sentenced to nine years in prison. The coroner ruled that Tiffany died of asphyxiation, and a county prosecutor said there were marks on the child’s neck consistent with the rings Pattinson was wearing.</p>
<p>Thomas Cross, Tiffany’s biological father, filed a lawsuit against Trumbull County Children Services, accusing the agency of failing to protect Tiffany despite what he says were warnings that the girl was being abused. Engler is the attorney for Cross.</p>
<p>In the suit, Cross said he warned the agency that the girl might be in danger, saying he noticed bruising on her and dog hair in her formula.</p>
<p>The Vindicator filed public-information requests with Children Services asking whether any disciplinary action was taken against any agency employee regarding the deaths of Guiton, Atkins or Banks Cross.</p>
<p>Kerosky, who became executive director Oct. 1, 2010, said no disciplinary action was taken in any of the cases.</p>
<p>“Those cases were all investigated and looked at by the state” Department of Job and Family Services, Kerosky said. He “had not read the reports” emanating from those investigations, Kerosky said, but Ohio JFS had found that Children Services had done nothing wrong, Kerosky said.</p>
<p>After asking the state agency for information on its investigations into the three deaths, the agency replied: “Regrettably, the Ohio Department of Job and Family Services cannot comply with your request due to state law that makes such records confidential/nonpublic.”<br />
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<p><strong>Attorney David Engler<br />
Phone: 330-729-9777<br />
http://www.DavidEngler.com <a href="http://www.DavidEngler.com">Attorney Engler&#8217;s website</a><br />
Areas of Practice: Family Law, Elder Law, Domestic Relations, Bankruptcy, Criminal </strong></p>
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		<title>Philadelphia Abuser shows need for more investigation and recordkeeping</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 18:20:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Attorney David Engler The Philadelphia Enquirer reported December 9, 2011 on one of the nation&#8217;s most horrific example of abusing a ward or in Linda Weston&#8217;s case a &#8220;payee&#8221;. Weston is accused of imprisoning intellectually challenged adults in a &#8230; <a href="http://familyfaultlines.com/2011/12/13/philadelphia-abuser-shows-need-for-more-investigation-and-recordkeeping/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=familyfaultlines.com&amp;blog=25248442&amp;post=369&amp;subd=familyfaultlines&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Attorney David Engler</strong></p>
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<p>The Philadelphia Enquirer reported December 9, 2011 on one of the nation&#8217;s most horrific example of abusing a ward or in Linda Weston&#8217;s case a &#8220;payee&#8221;.  Weston is accused of imprisoning intellectually challenged adults in a Tacony cellar and stealing their federal benefits. Weston was the official recipient of Social Security benefits for 10 men and women from 1995 to 2011, according to a source familiar with the ongoing investigation.</p>
<p>&#8220;She had applied to be the &#8220;representative payee&#8221; for an 11th beneficiary, her biological daughter, the source said.</p>
<p>In an ongoing investigation, the Social Security Administration has found that Weston was getting the checks for four relatives, including children; five individuals who were not related; and one person who had the same last name but whose relationship to Weston has not been firmly established.</p>
<p>As of October, Weston was terminated as the payee for seven of the beneficiaries, the source said.</p>
<p>Of those beneficiaries, three were with Weston at the time of her arrest; two are dead; one no longer needed a representative payee; and one was switched to a more suitable payee.</p>
<p>Payments for the three others were suspended, pending the results of an investigation by the administration&#8217;s Office of Inspector General, the source said.</p>
<p>Police continue to probe the 2005 death of Donna Spadea, 59, while in Weston&#8217;s care in Philadelphia.</p>
<p>Another person who died under Weston&#8217;s care was Maxine Lee, 39, of Philadelphia. In November 2008, she was found dead in a house that Weston was renting in Norfolk, Va. Norfolk police said Lee died of natural causes. A medical examiner attributed Lee&#8217;s death to meningitis, with severe malnutrition as a contributing factor.</p>
<p>Weston had served less than four years in prison for a 1984 conviction for starving to death a man, 25, she kept trapped in her Philadelphia apartment. She was arrested in October with her daughter and husband after the landlord of a Tacony apartment house found four intellectually handicapped people locked in the building&#8217;s cellar.</p>
<p>A sweep of the apartment where Weston was staying turned up identification records for as many as 50 people, including power-of-attorney paperwork, forms of identification, and Social Security numbers. Police said it suggested a vast fraud operation.</p>
<p>People who are convicted of crimes are banned by law from accepting government checks on behalf of others, but it is a self-reporting system.</p>
<p>The social security administration is very lax on who is appointed as a representative payee and should be encouraging more professional organizations or registered guardians to act as payees.  Each year billions are stolen in benefits from the poor by those who are claiming to help. </p>
<p>The answer is not only better background checks but accurate record keeping that can be reviewed by other family members, a court or agency at any time. Our company, eGuardianship.com <a href="http://www.eGuardianship.com"> www.eGuardianship.com</a> has pioneered the nation&#8217;s first online real-time reporting system for wards. Such systems ensure proper recordkeeping and help to minimize if not eliminate fraud.</p>
<p>U.S. Sen. Bob Casey (D., Pa.) is proposing a bill that would give the Social Security Administration access to FBI databases in order for caseworkers to conduct criminal background checks. It&#8217;s a start.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Attorney David Engler She was tall with dark skin and high cheekbones. Her friends told her she could be a model. She married a salesman who was as light as she was dark. The romance lasted. Two children that &#8230; <a href="http://familyfaultlines.com/2011/11/28/racist-mom-in-the-house-what-do-you-do/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=familyfaultlines.com&amp;blog=25248442&amp;post=331&amp;subd=familyfaultlines&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Attorney David Engler</strong></p>
<p>She was tall with dark skin and high cheekbones.  Her friends told her she could be a model. She married a salesman who was as light as she was dark. The romance lasted. Two children that should be on Benetton ads made the family four.    </p>
<p><img src="http://davidengler.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/benneton-one.jpg?w=584" alt="One of Benetton's famous ad images" /><br />
<strong>One of the famous images from Benetton&#8217;s advertising campaign.</strong></p>
<p>His temper was short from working 12 hours days selling cars.  Hers was even shorter. And as the realities of bills and a belief that one didn&#8217;t understand the other grew; it slowly churned into the stuff of disrespect. </p>
<p>The divorce came along after seven years and the marriage ended.  She went to live with the two kids in a public housing development where the rent was $50 per month.  Everyone in the streets knows how to work the college training grants and the for-profit &#8220;colleges&#8221; encourage the scam. Sometimes if you play it right you can withdraw and still get your money. Food stamps bring in another $600 per month and the Earned Income Tax credit brings a family of three $5000 per year.  Add those numbers to a required job, a part-time position at a nursing home and you have a pretty comfortable lifestyle.</p>
<p>The father was still trying to hold onto the marital home bought in the early days of the real estate boom. Money was easier in 2003.   He made decent money but after paying taxes, utilities, mortgages, insurance and child support there was less than $200 a pay.</p>
<p>She might have had it easy but she never lost her anger over the split. She was sure it was because she was black and he was white. Trevor&#8217;s white dad didn&#8217;t understand that giving a child a beating with a switch was a cultural difference. With the black mother talking &#8216;stuff&#8217; all day long in front of the children the father became sick worrying that his son would grow up believing that whites were the devil. His daughter was already a teen and did as the mother directed. It happens plenty going the other way as well. Sometimes a new step-parent moves in with the children and he is a raging racist. A large, poisonous, portion of the racist&#8217;s time is spent thinking about race.</p>
<p>The father believed that racism was as bad as a mother on drugs or a parent that would allow domestic violence to be witnessed weekly. He filed a motion with the Court stating that there had been a change of circumstances and the &#8220;best interests&#8221; test would demand that the child be relocated to his home. Months of court went by but he was right and &#8220;won&#8221;. The boy is now being raised out in the country going to a great school and whether he is black or white never comes up.  He&#8217;s a boy playing with cars in the mud and seeing his mother every other weekend.  </p>
<p>Racism is not an opinion that deserves equal weight or the need to turn the other cheek.  If someone moves into your house and is a racist, then don&#8217;t let him or her in if he or she wants to share their ugliness with your children.  If it is your child in that home then you can file a motion seeking a change of custody.  It is no less dangerous than someone blowing smoke around an infant. It has no place around children, lest we never want to see racism end.<br />
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		<title>Attorney Engler asks Governor to have State take over Trumbull Children Services Bureau</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s Vindicator newspaper carries more on this ongoing tragedy: Attorney Engler asks Governor to have State take over Trumbull Children Services Bureau Considering the State&#8217;s finding that Trumbull CSB went back and filed visitation forms AFTER the alleged rape of &#8230; <a href="http://familyfaultlines.com/2011/11/22/attorney-engler-asks-governor-to-have-state-take-over-trumbull-children-services-bureau/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=familyfaultlines.com&amp;blog=25248442&amp;post=323&amp;subd=familyfaultlines&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today&#8217;s Vindicator newspaper carries more on this ongoing tragedy:<br />
<a href="http://www.vindy.com/news/2011/nov/22/attorney-asks-state-to-take-over-csb-age/">Attorney Engler asks Governor to have State take over Trumbull Children Services Bureau</a></p>
<p>Considering the State&#8217;s finding that Trumbull CSB went back and filed visitation forms AFTER the alleged rape of an infant, all the way back to October 2010, it now is clear they should be no longer be the custodian of the victimized infant.</p>
<p><strong>Attorney David Engler<br />
Phone: 330-729-9777<br />
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