How Did Trumbull County Miss This Sick Boy?

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To be sure there are a thousand sad stories of abuse or neglect of children even in a County the size of Trumbull County, Ohio.  This is why records must be kept on national and state databases. Trumbull may have kept these records correctly but they do not have a good track record of keeping information timely.  Parents or care-givers like to “jump” state or move when CSB is after them for a drug screen or if the parents sense the bruises might be discovered.  The person or person’s under investigation need to know moving will not buy them time.  In the tragic case of Willie, TCCSB knew he was sick and it is not clear what they did or what they knew.

Look at the story posted below and ask how there could have been a concern in the summer of 2007 noted by CSB, then a follow-up contact in early 2008 and finally a death in Cuyahoga of the same little boy two months later. Did CSB ever force the parents to take the boy to the doctor’s in 2007.  Did they seek verification in January of 2008? The boy’s Aunt thinks CSB might have been tricked into believing Willie was someone else.  Willie at the time of his death was a poor skeleton of a person.

Does Children Services Board, it’s Director or the Commissioners even care to ask questions?  There is an epidemic of children dying in either foster care or care overseen/approved by CSB.  This would be the 5th death in 9 years.

I will send a copy of this blog to the Governor’s office and the Attorney General of Ohio.  They ought to know.

Cleveland (AP)

The parents of an 8-year-old boy who died from Hodgkin lymphoma after suffering for months from undiagnosed swollen glands have pleaded guilty to denying him medical treatment.

Monica Hussing, 37, and William Robinson Sr., 40, both of Cleveland, face up to eight years in prison at sentencing. They pleaded guilty Monday to attempted involuntary manslaughter in a last-minute plea deal before their trial was about to begin.

Willie Robinson collapsed at his home on March 22, 2008. Prosecutors say he had begged his parents to take him to see a doctor but was rejected. Hodgkin lymphoma is a highly treatable cancer.

Hussing’s attorney, John Luskin, said his client took responsibility in the case but, given her education and background, didn’t realize the boy was seriously ill and was treating him with cold medication.

“She is a mother that just did not have the capability to recognize” cancer, Luskin said Wednesday.

Robinson’s lawyer, Thomas Rein, called it a “sad, horrific case” that drew him inquiries from the White House as changes to federal health care law were being considered in 2009.

“Had he had regular health coverage, it possibly could have prevented this,” Rein said of the boy’s  death.

Luskin and Rein said the parents had financial problems and tried to get checkups for their children but couldn’t afford it.

“The kid had what appeared to be swollen glands,” Luskin said. “This was not a tumor that was getting bigger. It would come and go. He would have his good days, he would have his bad days.”

Hussing’s daughter, Lillian Hussing, said the family didn’t have money for medical care when they lived in Warren, tried repeatedly to get help from social services and visited a free clinic but left when told they would have to pay $180.

“We did not know it was cancer,” she said. “We tried and tried to get help and were denied every time,” said the daughter, who’s 18.

The family soon moved to Cleveland and the boy died within weeks.

Prosecutors say that while the boy was suffering, the parents claimed financial hardship but paid $87 to have a pit bull treated for fleas. Luskin said the dog belonged to Hussing’s parents and her parents paid for the treatment.

Trumbull County Children Services says it had worked with the family to provide Willie health care, getting involved after receiving a phone call in July 2007. Agency officials said a case worker visited the family at least monthly and pushed the parents to have a medical follow-up on his swollen neck but they didn’t.

However, Rein said a social worker who visited the family in January 2008 “indicated the kids were healthy and happy.” He said no one knew the boy had cancer until he died and an autopsy was performed.

And Lillian Hussing said a case worker had told the family the boy’s lump looked like a swollen gland and to hold off until they could secure financial assistance before getting it checked.

About two weeks after they moved to Cleveland, she said, her brother came down with something. Her mother treated him with cold medicine and he died within three days.

She said the boy never complained about his neck.

“He played, he went outside, he wrestled, he played video games,” the boy’s sister said. “He was the happiest kid you could imagine. It never seemed like he was suffering.”

The emotional aftermath from their son’s death led the couple to split, according to Luskin.

The couple’s four other children under 18 were placed in the custody of a family member. Luskin said the daughter, upon turning 18, decided to return to live with her mother.

Rein said Robinson agreed to plead guilty so his children could be spared any further grief and wouldn’t have to suffer by testifying. Lillian Hussing said her mother took a plea bargain because of the uncertainty of a trial and fear she could be sent to prison for a long time.

As part of the deal, the prosecution agreed to drop four counts each against each parent, including child endangering. Prosecutors didn’t agree to a sentence recommendation. Both Luskin and Rein said they hope the judge will consider probation.

“There’s not a day my client … starts without shedding a tear for his son,” Rein said.

The coroner ruled that the boy was a victim of medical neglect and died from pneumonia due to Hodgkin lymphoma.

Hodgkin lymphoma is a highly treatable cancer, with as many as 95 percent of patients in early stages of the disease surviving for five years or more with treatment. It’s one of the most common forms of cancers among children.

Dr. Stanton L. Gerson, director of the Case Comprehensive Cancer Center at Case Western Reserve University, said parents should watch for glands that are swollen for more than two or three weeks, particularly if accompanied by weight loss and nighttime fevers.

This Should Have Been Stopped

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By Attorney David Engler

Teacher
I have been an elected official for over 22 years. The past 11 have been with the Board of the Mahoning County Career and Technical Center. I was a Board Member who received a deranged business card from the killer who stalked Stacey Sutera. Please make no mistake about it: Stacey Sutera was a beautiful daughter, mother, granddaughter, teacher, friend and colleague. This was not some boyfriend-girlfriend relationship gone bad. This was a freak ego-maniac; obsessed old man who was bent on revenge once he learned the object of his obsession had rejected him. There was no relationship. It existed in his twisted mind. And then this criminal monster stole this tremendous young successful life from her family, friends and students.

I cannot remember being so sad and angry at the same time over something that has unfolded in the public. It did not have to happen. It could have been stopped. The government paid to protect us should have insisted that if the killer was not going to be in jail for 5 years, he should have worn a GPS tracking device that kept him out of Mahoning County. If he took the bracelet off or came within the County limits the victim and police would be immediately notified. She lived a nightmare of wondering where he was. And I do not know if she approved the plea agreement that got him no monitoring or jail or if that was recommended to her. Often a battered or stalked woman will not want to push too far. They fear retaliation. Stacey did everything right.

She called the police and Canfield PD responded to protect her. She received a restraining order. She filed a civil suit. She installed cameras. She asked for help. So why wasn’t he made to pay for a GPS tracking device? It was available.

The federal government, state government and every person that is elected to represent people should recognize that the answer to this tragedy is to hold those that should have protected Stacey accountable and to make sure it never happens again. Never again should a madman stalk an innocent young woman, put her life in tatters and not be required to wear a bracelet that would protect his victim. Anywhere. Anytime.

Some will argue where to draw the line. I trust the Judges will know that line if they are presented with the facts and threat. But please be sure that the devil that took Stacey was an obvious threat. She knew that and it meant that others knew the danger as well. May her memory be a call to action.

Attorney David Engler
Phone: 330-729-9777
http://www.DavidEngler.com Attorney Engler’s website
Areas of Practice: Family Law, Elder Law, Domestic Relations, Bankruptcy, Criminal

Rest In Peace Mom

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Austintown, Ohio and Orono, Maine- Wanda Jane Engler, 84, died February 2nd, 2012, at the Maine Veterans’ Home after battling Parkinson Disease. She was born February 27th, 1927 in Bellwood, PA, daughter of Samuel and Emma (Hostler) Hildebrand. She graduated in 1948 from the Clearfield School of Nursing at Indiana State College with a degree in Nursing. Wanda was proud of her service as Nurse Cadet during WWII and working with veterans at the Cleveland VA Hospital, where she participated in some of the very first open heart surgery as Operating Room Nurse. On January 20th,1951,she married William L. Engler, the father of her four children. She worked as a homemaker and nurse throughout Ohio, finally settling in Youngstown, OH, where she worked as an office nurse for Dr. Tochtenhagen in Girard and as a nanny for her grandchildren until her retirement. She loved working around her home and reading. She loved her grandchildren immensely and was known to everyone as “Nana”. She enjoyed her neighbors and lived next door to the best neighbors ever, Carl and Mary Gump. She moved to Maine in August 2009, to be closer to her youngest daughter and granddaughter who cared for her during her hardest months.

Wanda was predeceased by her loving husband of 39 years, Bill; sisters, Lorraine Fair and Grace Large and brother Eugene “Red” Hildebrand. She is survived by her four children: Patricia Engler of Conifer, CO; William Engler (Wendy)of Minneapolis, MN; David Engler of Canfield, OH; and Amy Engler Booth,(John) of Orono; grandchildren: Mallory Engler of Houston, TX; Elizabeth Engler, of Chicago, IL; Taylor Engler, of San Diego, CA; Emma Engler, of Canton, OH; William Engler, of Pittsburgh, PA; and Molly Booth, of Orono. She is also survived by: sister Thelma McWilliams of Bluffton SC; and brother Ralph Hildebrand of Altoona, PA; and nieces and nephews.

The family would like to express sincere thanks to the staff at Maine Veterans’ Home. Interment and a memorial service will be held in Austintown, OH in the late spring. In lieu of flowers, those who wish to remember Wanda in a special way may make gifts in her memory to the Clearfield Hospital Nursing Alumni Association’s Nursing Scholarship, c/o Rita Thomson, 612 Arnold Ave., Clearfield, PA 16830.

The (lack of a sincere) Apology

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By Attorney David Engler

The CSB worker that I agreed not to prosecute gave me the old no apology, apology. It’s where you tell the offended party that you are sorry if they were so stupid that you took their threatening words as a threat. That since you are so stupid, then I am sorry you took my warning to “stay out of Trumbull ” as something other than a nicety we people use around here. And I am so sorry if you or someone might have been alarmed that I used ugly language that would make my mother’s hair curl to tell you I would attempt to ruin your business…but if you should happen to have such thin skin then I’m sorry.

Try using one of these lines on your wife. Boom to the moon!

(Here is a link to an article that describes the pathology of the faux apology.
http://lightshouse.org/lights-blog/false-apology-fake-apology-fauxpology )

It is this total lack of remorse in their every ill-advised actions that make me pursue this agency, seeking justice for the murdered and abused children. If Trumbull County’s CSB openly recognized their mistakes, and were making a sincere effort to correct them, one could give them the benefit-of-the-doubt. But in fact, they are not sincerely trying to make good, they are simply scrambling to take any actions which will make the spotlight on their operations go away.

Let’s not allow them to do that, for the good of our region and the good of our children let’s keep the spotlight where it belongs, on the children Trumbull County CSB has had in their custody who have been abused and murdered.

Attorney David Engler
Phone: 330-729-9777
http://www.DavidEngler.com Attorney Engler’s website
Areas of Practice: Family Law, Elder Law, Domestic Relations, Bankruptcy, Criminal

Why Government Fails Children

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By Attorney David Engler
Newton's Law

In one way or the other for 25 years I have been involved as a government elected official. First as a councilman from a tough Youngstown City Ward, then a Commissioner of a large Ohio County and now as a Board Member of a County School System. So I admit to being part of the problem.

In each of these roles, part, or the entire mandate has been to provide for and to protect children. It’s a given that we as a State and Country believe that children should be offered a Free and Appropriate Public Education. Through our County and City governments we also believe that children should be protected from those that would abuse and neglect them like their parents or other predators that lurk in front of and behind the shadows.

Government lacks accountability from results from layering of bureaucracy year after year, tax dollar after tax dollar. Each year their mass gets greater.

Laws of physics apply. A body at rest stays at rest. To overcome inertia there must be a force that is equal to mass of the object times acceleration. Newton had it right. This is my theory: that F= MA applies equally to government agencies. The question is how to generate force extrinsic to the agency.

In Trumbull County, Ohio the Children Service Placement Agency funded with federal, state and local dollars has remained a body at rest despite the murders of four children over 10 years by foster parents approved by CSB or by others where CSB was involved in the placement. Just recently, it was discovered that a nine-month old infant was molested at the agency during a “supervised” visitation. The agency remarkably believes it shares no liability for allowing the atrocity to occur and be filmed at its own building. It says this even though it knew that the infant’s father had raped a three year old relative about 7 years earlier and was sent to DYS (Juvenile Jail) in Columbus.

In Mahoning County the Board I sit on operates a school for children with emotional disabilities. And there is no doubt that the overall mission is to serve this very difficult population on funding from the State of about $11,000 per year per student. It is hard to find a teacher with a certification in special education and the aides that work with the children have even less or no training in dealing with these kids. So each year there is a tremendous turnover in personnel because to work a day at this alternative school can feel like a lifetime. There is no football team to cheer, no children getting academic achievement awards and no school plays or recitals where the children are applauded. The gains are so much smaller. It might be a victory to get a child to come to school fed, bathed and properly dressed. It is a landmark to matriculate the student back to a home school. But the turnover in personnel means there is a lack of consistency in teaching methods and often a sense that the school is doing nothing more than holding the child as time passes. Nothing will change until an accident happens and the lack of progress is brought to light.

Force in a governmental setting is only applied by those elected or appointed to be the representatives of the public that deemed a public education or the protection of children goals worthy of the forced conscription of our personal wealth, i.e.,income tax, sales tax or real property tax. The other form of force beyond our elected representatives occurs through a ballot initiative or the rejection or adoption of a tax levy placed on the ballot It is at this point where the disconnect begins. Once the money leaves our paycheck or wallet; it makes it way to the institutions charged with creating the desired outcomes of a FAPE and protected children. These government agencies are often run by an appointed board that has little connection to the elected board that years ago had appointed them. There is no real connection or concern about their jobs since they are not being paid and the public rarely even knows they sit on a board that dispenses 15.5 million dollars a year in purchased services. At this point in time several board members are reading this and shouting at the computer screen “How in the world can Engler say I don’t care about kids. That is why I volunteer my time to sit on this Board.” Let me be clear I believe that nearly all Board members on schools boards and CSB boards do care about children getting a good education and being safe from perverts, but they lack the incentive of “Force” to make any significant change even in the face of overwhelming evidence that their system is broken. The Board member normally pales in the face of a multi-million dollar entity that has long ago learned that board members come and go and the occasional critic can be outlasted. That is the inertia of Mass. It is what happens when you spend 15.5 million dollars a year on salaries and services. The prosecutor in the town turns his head because he gets over $200,000 a year in contracted services. Everyone knows someone who has a job at the agency. Maybe a recommendation from a commissioner or Board member was helpful in securing that job. Health professionals make money. Foster parents make money. Pretty soon every potential critic has a gag in his/her mouth because there is money involved.

I remember being the youngest County Commissioner in Ohio at the time, being full of an overabundance of both piss and vinegar. An older colleague kindly told me: slow down, this 300 million dollar county is like moving the Titanic. YOU CANNOT DO IT. So you learn to accept small victories, but they are literally changing the deck chairs. I built a couple of jails, instituted 911, curb-side recycling and managed to finagle money from the federal government to create some jobs. But 12 years later I’m not sure much has changed.

The amount of force necessary to move a government from a place of inertia to forward movement is the threat that it’s budget will be consumed from outside attacks like lawsuits or that it can be replaced by a model that would be inherently more accountable since it would be judged purely on how many children you helped to educate or whether you were able to keep children from being murdered or reduce the number of children abused. If you fail to show progress than you lose your government contract after three years. The economic motivation would be so great to do the job that the contracted not for profit agency or not for profit school would every day make sure it was meeting its goals. Contrast the proposed model to the model at work now. Four children get murdered and another gets molested in your agency and the only change is more tax funds and higher salaries. Teachers are jumping ship from the school in increasing numbers every year and nothing happens. There must be a connection made between doing your job and getting paid. In government it is rare for someone to lose a job because a child under its watch was murdered or students simply survive a school system because they are so difficult to begin with. My belief is that children do not fail; we fail our children.

Governments have it wrong when they think they can run a children service agency or school for special needs students. We care but not enough to do anything until some outside entity finds that special place where F = MA. It is usually the death of a child, but not always as Trumbull County has shown. It might be the loss of a levy or the loss from a lawsuit or the mandate from a Governor. But it does not occur from within. The agencies are designed to disperse blame as efficiently as a bullet proof vest will deflect the force of a fired shot. No one in particular is accountable.

Governments are designed to tax people and provide some basic services like policing the streets and providing firefighting. When the mandate goes beyond these traditional services the best result government can get to protect and educate special need children is to create a contract with a well vetted not for profit who has to answer a basic question every two or three years: “what did you do to protect our children or take care of their special needs. If your answer is nothing then you are not needed.

Attorney David Engler
Phone: 330-729-9777
http://www.DavidEngler.com Attorney Engler’s website
Areas of Practice: Family Law, Elder Law, Domestic Relations, Bankruptcy, Criminal

Poor Auntavia. When a child is murdered it should be asked: “What did we do wrong?”

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A note to my friends: Thanks for your showing of support. I appreciate it. I have written another article for you and hope you will look at it and give me your feedback. I consider the writing part of my job fighting for people.

By Attorney David Engler

Nick Kerosky, the Director of Trumbull County Children Services expressed succinctly the attitude of most bureaucratic children service directors, “There’s no support that it [wrongdoing] ever happened. I don’t believe it ever happened,” Kerosky said.

“While the death of a child is always a tragedy, it is unfair and unethical to assume that a death means that there must be wrongdoing on the part of CSB.” Director Kerosky said in a press release, in response to allegations that the 2003 death of 3 year old Auntavia Diggs was in part due to CSB’s inaction

Kerosky believes that one, two or three children deaths in Trumbull County, Ohio during a 6 year period should not give rise to criticism of CSB. I suppose he is talking about me when he suggests it is unethical to assume a death means that there must be wrongdoing on the part of CSB.

I will not comment about my pending action on behalf of a dad who lost his only child, a daughter, (without being represented,) to a foster-parent who quickly murdered the little 22 month old, strangling the life out of her. CSB said she would be a good foster parent. She left the impression of her ring on the baby’s neck.

No I want to talk about poor Auntavia who was tortured, burned and then murdered by people CSB said were appropriate to watch children.

Relatives say Ethel Wilbert-Bethea who is serving 21 years for murder reached out to CSB three times to give the baby back. CSB’s records, which we learned from the State Audit are sometimes ‘adjusted after the fact’, reflect a Hogan’s Heroes Sargent Schultz mentality of “I’ve seen nothing. I’ve heard nothing.”

5 months earlier in 2003, little 4 year old Logan Guiton was murdered while in foster care by Michael Ledger. His head was cracked against a wall in the house where he was placed by CSB. Ledger is serving 15 years to life. The CSB director at that time said there were no records to suggest CSB had any culpability.

This is the point: when any child in their care dies, it should be assumed that children services erred. An agency should not be afraid to look at itself in every instance and find out how it could have prevented the tragedy.

Look at The CSB mission statement. …it is to protect children in Trumbull County from being abused in their schools, homes and to especially protect those children from the most likely abuser, a family member. The standard of care becomes even greater when the child falls into the care and custody of CSB. It would seem that a child being molested in CSB’s own building would be a clear case of a colossal CSB screwup when it was known or should have been known that the father was a voracious sexual predator who had his siblings removed from his home when he was released by department of Youth Services. While in Mahoning County lock up as a juvenile, he was a sexual predator. The grandmother complained to CSB about him being a sex offender. CSB does not keep notes, when it does not fit its story.

Trumbull County Children Services Bureau fails when a child gets sexually abused. Anywhere. Anytime.

It will happen again. And at every turn CSB should be asking itself what did we do wrong. This doesn’t mean CSB will be sued. It is a fundamental shift in philosophy from what Kerosky said about the murder of poor Auntavia, to a more principled belief, that when it comes to the safety of our children there is no margin of error. There can be no hesitancy to act. Each tragedy should be a moment to learn from mistakes and work harder to prevent the loss of a child in the future. CSB is protected from just about every form of liability except the one that springs forth from the expenditure of 15.5 million dollars of taxpayer money each year to affirmatively keep kids from dying. CSB is in a statistical tsunami of children’s deaths and abuse and its answer is to say bad things happen. The rate of children’s death by caregivers in Trumbull County is either a statistical anomaly or an indication that something is broken and needs fixed.

“Poor Joshua! Victim of repeated attacks by an irresponsible, bullying, cowardly, and intemperate father, and abandoned by respondents who placed him in a dangerous predicament and who knew or learned what was going on, and yet did essentially nothing except … dutifully recorded these incidents in [their] files.” It is a sad commentary upon American life, and constitutional principles – so full of late of patriotic fervor and proud proclamations about “liberty and justice for all” – that this child, Joshua DeShaney, now is assigned to live out the remainder of his life profoundly retarded. Joshua and his mother, as petitioners here, deserve – but now are denied by this Court – the opportunity to have the facts of their case considered in the light of the constitutional protection that 42 U.S.C. 1983 is meant to provide.”

This was the famous dissent given by Associate Justice Harry Blackmun in the DeShaney v. Winnebago County Children Services case that stands as law today. The mother of Joshua had sued the county CSB for allowing the child to go back to the care of his father despite a clear indication that the father was a child abusing bully. A child was abused by his father and CSB failed to act. The majority in the case stated that Joshua could not recover from Winnebago County because the federal laws are meant to protect violations of a state actor, not a private actor like Joshua’s father or in the case in Trumbull County, Wilbert-Bethea who murdered Auntavia. The Supreme Court did say that there might be state court remedies, but those are unlikely since governmental immunities protect CSB from all but the most egregious acts of indifference. They are not protected however when the offender who kills or molests is an agent of the State like a foster parent or the harm takes place on its own property.

It is unlikely that CSB will change from within and become the type of agency that understands that every death of a child is one too many and at each death or each incident of abuse CSB should ask itself what it did wrong.

Our victimized children do not fail us, we fail them.
CSB is given $15.5 million dollars a year to perform a job the rest of us believe is proper and right.

And this is not a condition that is found just in Trumbull County, Ohio. It has happened with three murders of children in Hamilton County this past year.

The State of Florida, after the sickening murder of a young boy and girl by their adoptive father, revamped its entire child protective service organization to allow not-for- profits and faith based groups a chance to be held more accountable than government agencies grown indifferent with time and attitudes of “it wasn’t me.”

Yes there should be no shame in each time a child is murdered, abused, or abandoned for the wealthy tax payer funded agency to say to itself, “what did we do wrong.” Not to take this attitude will only lead to more unspeakable horrors.

Attorney David Engler
Phone: 330-729-9777
http://www.DavidEngler.com Attorney Engler’s website
Areas of Practice: Family Law, Elder Law, Domestic Relations, Bankruptcy, Criminal

It’s Never Too Late To Make a New Friend

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By Attorney David Engler

Wanda and Stella
Wanda and Stella

Wanda is my Mom. Parkinson’s disease has slowly but assuredly taken her strength and her voice. The stroke on the Royal Wedding Day this spring did not help matters either. But as the New Year approaches she is in the Maine Veterans Home. She does not want to see her 86th year. She has prayed to her husband and my father, Bill who passed 21 years ago, that she wanted nothing more to do with her worn body. They met 59 years ago. She was a nurse at the VA hospital in Cleveland and he was a disabled vet getting a degree at Kent State.

Stella is 93 and cancer is fighting her will and she knows the battle is nearly over. The last great battle she saw was working as an Army nurse in England helping to heal GI’s as they returned from Normandy. Not coincidentally she married a soldier whom she met a few years later and he took her to Maine. Over time she would have two children and help turn a family owned bar and grill into a large seafood wholesaler specializing in selling Lobsters, of course. The great irony Stella explained was that she could never taste what her family sold because she was allergic to shell fish which should not be confused with seafood.

About 15 months ago we moved Mom from her home in Ohio to live on the first floor of my sister’s home in Maine. She was falling and insisted that she could care for herself; the reality was she could not make the one step from the living room to the kitchen.

So off to Maine she went. The state motto is “Life As It Ought To Be”. My sister is busy with an 8 year old adopted Chinese whirlwind named Molly and a professorship at the U of Maine. Three 911 calls in 6 months and it was clear that Mom needed nursing home care. So in May of this last year she gets put in a room with Stella. Stella’s hair is wispy from the many chemo treatments she received to slow down cancer’s assault. Long before the cancer her hearing went. She seems to fill in the words if you can talk loud enough. Mom had one good eye before the stroke and Parkinson’s and now that one went bad. Reading and watching the news was a daily companion, now she can just listen to Ann Curry.

The room looks like any other nursing home. Cards crowd the bulletin boards and the closet door is a backdrop of art work created by grandchildren. What makes the room a home is each other. The nurses and aides see the two holding hands trying to make sense of a death that is unscheduled but waiting. It was Stella who told the staff that she and Wanda have a pact that they would like to hold hands and race into heaven together. The spunky nurse from Portugal attracted to Maine by her country’s fishing heritage, said “It was more like a turtle race to Heaven”, since neither seemed closer to the end despite their bodies having months ago failed.

So it was on Christmas Day this year that I traveled to surprise my Mom. At first she did not recognize me. I have heard how hard that is to hear. But after a few minutes she asked about each of the kids that she raised when they were small and that I feed her a favorite dark chocolate mint from Philadelphia Chocolates. It was my favorite Christmas memory. And what I took home was this picture I snapped with my iPhone that neither old nurse could have imagined. A new friend was made in what will surely be their last year on this Earth. It is the power of a touch of a hand and someone that cares when you least expect it.

Attorney David Engler
Phone: 330-729-9777
http://www.DavidEngler.com Attorney Engler’s website
Areas of Practice: Family Law, Elder Law, Domestic Relations, Bankruptcy, Criminal